I love you dear.
It seems that I have always loved you and that it can't be possible for me to live without you.
Have you really gone? We said good-bye, but not farewell. Or is that my own hurting heart hoping for a different truth? But why does my heart hurt, my love? You did nothing wrong, nor did I.
Do I love you so much that even the fear of losing your love makes me so sad that it makes my heart feel like its being crushed?
Do you feel this same way, Dear? Are you afraid that without my love you'll be as we were before? Empty, dry, hurting souls. Wanting to love and to be loved, but being so afraid of being hurt again that we walked like empty shells.
Oh my God, dear Dear. You can't be gone. Not from my heart. I promised you that's where you'd always be. You gave me the same promise. And we knew that our love was so strong, strong enough to withstand anything.
Not from my life. Please, dear saints in Heaven don't let this be. We have both suffered before, for this same thing. A love lost, then gain, and then again. You are so special, you are my life, and every waking moment from dawn till sleep I have you in my thoughts.
I hear your laugh; I love your voice, your eyes of hazel-green, hair silky, shiny smooth falls to your waist. We have traveled as none other. On my magic carpet with our friends, but of all else, I love but you.
You are gone, but for awhile. Not forever. For that I'd die, I truly would. I gave you my heart, my soul, my life to put into your treasure chest of love. As that is where I keep your gifts to me.
A cherished vision of a love so grand, that nothing can come between. My ring is on your finger; my plight of troth is in your ear. A golden, solar flare to let the whole world know of our love for each other.
How can you be gone? Is this something the saints and all the gods would truly allow? For you to be gone from my side, for me to be out of your thoughts? Am I never to know your gentle touch again? Your soft voice and lilting laugh of love? The happiness that we have known the adventures that have been ours? Are these all to become dry, dusty memories in love's grave of impossibility?
Don't let me die like this, sweet love of mine. For if you are, in fact, gone forever, then die I will. Please tell me that my thoughts are wrong, my thinking muddled, that I am only imagining this loss.
My heart is heavy, dear. It hurts for you. Before my tears can wash this pain away, please tell me that you haven't left my life. Please come back.
I love you dear. Love you forever,
With all my Love, forever,
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Framing and Perfection Of Life
Life is too complicated and too easy. It’s upon the perception which we appeal with.
In life there are things we must deal with. There are things we can change, that we have some power to control. There are other things that are absolutely beyond our control. Yet how often do we spend our time and energy doing absolutely nothing about the things we do have some control over, while whining and complaining about those things we can’t do anything about? Often, because we have our priorities twisted in the wrong direction, we end up chasing our tails and wasting time. Once we change gears, and focus only on those things that we have some capacity to control, it’s easy to get back on track.
It’s tempting to focus on aspects of life that are beyond our control. How often do you hear people complaining about food available to them in various places like cafeteria, restaurants or some other places? While no one likes to take incorrect or tasteless or food not worth, and certainly no one should supposed to have such food than he or she is supposed to have, there is a great deal of wisdom in spending your time creating or finding some good places where you can get better food or cook yourself or find a maid rather than complaining about existing ones.
Go ahead and opt for those ready available foods. Voice your opinion if you choose to do so. But once you have done what you can do, let go of it. Know when to quit. Expend your energy doing what you can do – focus on creation, creativity, positive ideas, and solutions. Stop complaining about what’s existing and can’t be changed; focus, instead, on making so much good and better food or find good places that those uneatable will seem irrelevant!
Change is in your hand. Either make change or bring change to yourself rather than complaining which will yield up in nothing rather than your increased frustration and hate and your stress. A person himself is responsible for his making other’s are not. Ask yourself judge yourself.
Have a Great Day.
In life there are things we must deal with. There are things we can change, that we have some power to control. There are other things that are absolutely beyond our control. Yet how often do we spend our time and energy doing absolutely nothing about the things we do have some control over, while whining and complaining about those things we can’t do anything about? Often, because we have our priorities twisted in the wrong direction, we end up chasing our tails and wasting time. Once we change gears, and focus only on those things that we have some capacity to control, it’s easy to get back on track.
It’s tempting to focus on aspects of life that are beyond our control. How often do you hear people complaining about food available to them in various places like cafeteria, restaurants or some other places? While no one likes to take incorrect or tasteless or food not worth, and certainly no one should supposed to have such food than he or she is supposed to have, there is a great deal of wisdom in spending your time creating or finding some good places where you can get better food or cook yourself or find a maid rather than complaining about existing ones.
Go ahead and opt for those ready available foods. Voice your opinion if you choose to do so. But once you have done what you can do, let go of it. Know when to quit. Expend your energy doing what you can do – focus on creation, creativity, positive ideas, and solutions. Stop complaining about what’s existing and can’t be changed; focus, instead, on making so much good and better food or find good places that those uneatable will seem irrelevant!
Change is in your hand. Either make change or bring change to yourself rather than complaining which will yield up in nothing rather than your increased frustration and hate and your stress. A person himself is responsible for his making other’s are not. Ask yourself judge yourself.
Have a Great Day.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Set Backs And Failure's In Life
Handling setbacks & failures.
The question isn’t whether or not we will have setback, disappointments, and failures in life – we will. Rather, the question is, how will we deal with them? Will we become upset, immobilized, frustrated, and hopeless or will we take a more positive approach and depend on Lord in such situations?
In other words, setbacks and failures can seem significant, even insurmountable in the moment. Yet, once we get through them, we look back at them as a necessary, even important part of our success. A number of people have told me that some major failures were the best thing that ever happened to them. Sure, it was painful while it was happening, but it woke them up and taught them some important lessons in life.
Few people are successful immediately, never rejected, perfectly placed the first time around. It’s usually just the opposite --- trial & error, rejection, setbacks, failures, & so forth.
If you are defeated over and over again, you can focus on the fact that things aren’t working out, beat yourself up mentally, and feel hopeless – or you can learn from your mistakes, improve your skills, let go of the past, and move on.
All the frustration in the world isn’t going to change what has already happened – so why make a big issue out of it?
The trick, I believe, is being able to use not only our past setbacks, but the current ones as well, to help us grow and move on. In other words, when something doesn’t work out well, rather than dwelling on it and feeling badly, we let it go, see what we can learn, make any necessary adjustments, and move forward.
Learning to stop making a big issue of our setbacks is a powerful way to live a better life. Without the ongoing nagging and heaviness of self-directed criticism and worrisome thoughts, we free up energy to be creative, hardworking, and successful.
Perception Depends from Person to Person, Mind to Mind, Individual to Individual. It’s all how you accepts the things and felt and want to feel and deal with.
Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It’s the courage to continue which counts. Yes it’s true.
Thought this to be something which might be helpful. Have a Great Day.
The question isn’t whether or not we will have setback, disappointments, and failures in life – we will. Rather, the question is, how will we deal with them? Will we become upset, immobilized, frustrated, and hopeless or will we take a more positive approach and depend on Lord in such situations?
In other words, setbacks and failures can seem significant, even insurmountable in the moment. Yet, once we get through them, we look back at them as a necessary, even important part of our success. A number of people have told me that some major failures were the best thing that ever happened to them. Sure, it was painful while it was happening, but it woke them up and taught them some important lessons in life.
Few people are successful immediately, never rejected, perfectly placed the first time around. It’s usually just the opposite --- trial & error, rejection, setbacks, failures, & so forth.
If you are defeated over and over again, you can focus on the fact that things aren’t working out, beat yourself up mentally, and feel hopeless – or you can learn from your mistakes, improve your skills, let go of the past, and move on.
All the frustration in the world isn’t going to change what has already happened – so why make a big issue out of it?
The trick, I believe, is being able to use not only our past setbacks, but the current ones as well, to help us grow and move on. In other words, when something doesn’t work out well, rather than dwelling on it and feeling badly, we let it go, see what we can learn, make any necessary adjustments, and move forward.
Learning to stop making a big issue of our setbacks is a powerful way to live a better life. Without the ongoing nagging and heaviness of self-directed criticism and worrisome thoughts, we free up energy to be creative, hardworking, and successful.
Perception Depends from Person to Person, Mind to Mind, Individual to Individual. It’s all how you accepts the things and felt and want to feel and deal with.
Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It’s the courage to continue which counts. Yes it’s true.
Thought this to be something which might be helpful. Have a Great Day.
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